Where is "the girl" for me?

I'm a 21 year old college student who is about to give up on everything. I can't seem to find the girl for me. I have dated off and on but it all ends up badly. I have had 2 steady relationships in the past, and they happen to be step sisters. 1 my age & the other 1 year younger. I dated the first one for 1 year and the other sister for almost 4 years- until we called it quits almost a year ago come December. It was devestating but instead of an relationship we had just became each others comfort zone. it didn't help that she was also cheating on me. I seem to have alot of "girl" friends. I'm straight and a Christian, who wanted to wait untill marriage for , Although I did loose it last year to my last girlfriend of 4 years - nothing to brag about, I regret it now. As I thought she was "the one", I gave her a promise ring for marriage and a very nice dinner on Valentines day 2008 but she didn't even seem phased. I can't help it, that I'm a big romantic. I made a 3 course dinner myself, lit tea light candles all over the house with fake rose petals, red & pink balloons and a dozen "real" roses on the table for her. Along with some skittles-since that was her favorite candy and A couple movies I rented for us to watch afterwards- and then I gave her the ring afterwards. I went all out- and i love to do that kind of stuff for someone I care about. She really accepted me and it's hard to find someone else who does now. See I'm from NC and where I live is in the middle of the country. I seem to think I'm an attractive guy, at least I hear by others. I seem to attract the wrong girls. They all love country music, hunting, rednecks etc... which ain't me at all. I can't find the right girl- i need some help. I'm a creative individual- graphic design student to be exact. Soe strange facts about me: I like rock, alternative music (mixes, tech, pop, etc...) I can't stand rap & country even though I can sometimes. I love my fourwheeler and my Jeep. I'm obsessed with Jeeps some reason. I like strange things.. Music: Nirvana, Smashing Pumpkins, Pearl Jam, Alice in Chains, Bush, Sound Garden, Nickleback, Seether, Daughtry, Kings of Leon, etc.. I really like grunge music from the late 90's and early 2000's. I also like mainstream music. Movies: Final Destination's, Cruel Intentions, American Beauty- (is awesome!), 30 days of night, twilight, 007, Jarhead, Day after tomorrow (really any horror, suspense, action or Comedy) Books- honestly I don't read unless it's for cl at which I skim. More useless facts about me: I drive a 2004 Jeep Grand Cherokee, A Moose is my favorite animal, I hate most normal sports except xtreme sports. (I can watch motocross, bmx, snow boarding, etcc... all day), I like strange things- I pay attention to details and things most other people wont notice, I'm very insecure and quite at times, I always put myself down, I am dedicated and loyal, romantic, only child, nervous for the future, goal oriented, Rollercoasters are awesome!, I LOVE<<< to travel, anytime, anyway Im there. -If I can afford it, ha! -wonderful world of being a broke college student, I daydream all the time, I love japenese food, I think girls are attractive who don;t put themselves out there for everyone, I like a mysterious girl such as I am -myself, I like going to the movies and out on the town but I'm always up for staying in and spending time just together. I don't do the whole party scene, no drinking etc... (IM SORRY FOR THIS SOUNDING LIKE A PERSONAL PROFILE) Im just tired of looking for that girl _ I hope she comes around one day. I hoped these useless facts about myself would help catch someones attention. There is alot more about me, as anyone, that I just dont have time to provide. All my friends that are girls seem to see me as "just friends" -which sucks b/c a couple I find very attractive but I have known them for years and they have b/f's off and on. I need help and advice. Is this girl oput there for me? I'm gradutaing college soon as Im a senior and I want to find this girl and start a life together (future, marriage, eventually kids, etc... "the whole 9 yards) - any advice or help guys?